Rains would kiss the earth and that union would be their love making for it leads to the sprouting of seeds that lay within its womb, fertilising it into blooms... the fragrance is heady and alluring for most of us.... unique and non recreable. That earthy essence of union is Love...
Romantic love, love for family , Love for self, love for society ,unconditional love, Universal love... we have categorised the concept for ourselves.... maybe... pondering on the concept of soulmates for analysis I humbly request to take my write up as a perspective.
We per say imbibe this very characteristic of Love and humor (experiencing joy) from the creator....
We try to find and do find our soulmates at different stages of our lives...
There are ones singular or plural who come in our life with a high speed, the passion is phenomenal, the chemistry is full on and we have the time of our lives with them. Everything is on a high... emotionally and physically... There is a But here.... this doesn't last or isn't meant to be... it either has to fade, go away, lead to circumstantial separation and eventually you don't get to be with the person for some reason or the other.... Both of you have a tough time to get over it/ move on/ let go... we have no choice but to accept it with or without mutual consent...
Then there are soulmates that we live with... we get habituated to with bonds of marriage or mutual commitment... There might be marriage on the cards of love and there might be love strung in the twine of marriage... however they are neither inclusive nor exclusive... There is convenience , comfort , habituation , security, collaboration of funds, intimacy assurance (in most marriages) , joys of parenting and the settlement into family life... it's a safe place to be... We love to be safe.... whether we are in love while being safe is another question... we continue to bask in this happy settlement for nore reasons than one. We are bound by our beliefs our conditioning and our traditions...
And there are soulmates with whom we have a tremendous emotional connect... our thinking vibes with similar frequencies , we compliment each other in all ways intellectually mentally and spiritually as well... there is mutual admiration and respect. We might have thought about each other out of the platonic and may have imagined the physical aspect of union in our minds, but we always stop there. We like to keep some things platonic. There is romance in the incomplete. We never even mention about the possibility of togetherness.... yes there is romance of different things sorts.... there is love for the personality that the other is.... we love our personality when we interact with the other.... but that's all about it....
Soulmates come , stay and go... that's the order of life... nothing is permanent. We'd like to believe that love is, but it isn't. We are intelligent species and with our ability to think and design life in a way that most things are sustainable for a longer period of life we make Bonds and commitments and dwell in them making things work for each other and all others we are associated with.
Cheers to all soulmates who were are and will be...
- Prajakta Sathe
Romantic love, love for family , Love for self, love for society ,unconditional love, Universal love... we have categorised the concept for ourselves.... maybe... pondering on the concept of soulmates for analysis I humbly request to take my write up as a perspective.
We per say imbibe this very characteristic of Love and humor (experiencing joy) from the creator....
We try to find and do find our soulmates at different stages of our lives...
There are ones singular or plural who come in our life with a high speed, the passion is phenomenal, the chemistry is full on and we have the time of our lives with them. Everything is on a high... emotionally and physically... There is a But here.... this doesn't last or isn't meant to be... it either has to fade, go away, lead to circumstantial separation and eventually you don't get to be with the person for some reason or the other.... Both of you have a tough time to get over it/ move on/ let go... we have no choice but to accept it with or without mutual consent...
Then there are soulmates that we live with... we get habituated to with bonds of marriage or mutual commitment... There might be marriage on the cards of love and there might be love strung in the twine of marriage... however they are neither inclusive nor exclusive... There is convenience , comfort , habituation , security, collaboration of funds, intimacy assurance (in most marriages) , joys of parenting and the settlement into family life... it's a safe place to be... We love to be safe.... whether we are in love while being safe is another question... we continue to bask in this happy settlement for nore reasons than one. We are bound by our beliefs our conditioning and our traditions...
And there are soulmates with whom we have a tremendous emotional connect... our thinking vibes with similar frequencies , we compliment each other in all ways intellectually mentally and spiritually as well... there is mutual admiration and respect. We might have thought about each other out of the platonic and may have imagined the physical aspect of union in our minds, but we always stop there. We like to keep some things platonic. There is romance in the incomplete. We never even mention about the possibility of togetherness.... yes there is romance of different things sorts.... there is love for the personality that the other is.... we love our personality when we interact with the other.... but that's all about it....
Soulmates come , stay and go... that's the order of life... nothing is permanent. We'd like to believe that love is, but it isn't. We are intelligent species and with our ability to think and design life in a way that most things are sustainable for a longer period of life we make Bonds and commitments and dwell in them making things work for each other and all others we are associated with.
Cheers to all soulmates who were are and will be...
- Prajakta Sathe
Sounds like even love is temporary.. ha? Or is it the order?
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