Freak...

It is way how things work in this world. Everyone wants to push a it more. But don't you worry, they will get it back. It is rule of Universe. because the world is full with mostly selfish and self-centered people who will stop at nothing to get what they want, and who do not care who gets hurt, as long as they have their way. It's the monkey in us. And, the monkey is a beast. The trend, though, is that we humans as a species and as individuals, continue, in fits and spurts, to rise above our monkey blood.

I don't make too many expectations while judging ppl, isnt it just better if u r aware that they might take advatage of u, so u would be prepared for it, in some way. People are build from Good, and shaped by Evil.Many times people choose to take advantage of others because it is within the limits of the law. The victims remain helpless while the advantage takers are without conscience. People who like taking advantage of others are usually the Takers and they want you to do everything their way and for their benefit. They want you to listen to their problems but they aren’t interested in yours. They think only of themselves, seldom of others. They want to be the center of everyone’s attention, time and praise. Some people are givers and will give and give and give and never get anything back, it is just thier way. Unfortunately these same people will often surround themselves with the "takers" and do not know when to say No. So they usually always get taken advantage of. It is sad but it is true. There are some people who take advantage of others just because they are mean, selfish, self centered people and they do it for all that they can get out of it. I would like to believe that most people, however, seem to take advantage of others just simply because they are the takers of the world and that is what they "know and do" and not because they are just mean spirited people. Most givers give of themselves so much usually because they are people pleasers and fear rejection, this makes them appear weak and thus they are perfect targets for the takers of our world "The are two kinds of people -- the takers and the givers. The takers sometimes eat better, but the givers always sleep better." Danny Thomas

We all want to be liked and respected, right? It seems everyone's vying for a place on society's "it" list. But while sporting the Mr. Popularity crown has its share of perks -- both in your personal and professional life -- you may wind up being nothing more than a doormat, getting stepped on left, right and center if you're not careful. The problem is that in your undying need to please everyone and stay on their good sides, you in turn leave yourself vulnerable to the nasty, selfish people who are only pretending to like you to satisfy their own agendas. Sure, you may be scoring high-fives, and the phone may be ringing off the hook, but it could be for all the wrong reasons.

D everyday situations

when i take a good, hard look at my friends and co-workers. Do they genuinely care about me, or are they putting up with me due to an ulterior motive? When I go out with my buddies, am I the one who's always paying? Does someone always misplace their wallet at the most convenient time, while someone else always seems to be "running a little short," thus forcing me to cough up the dough every time? Am I being included in activities only because I m the sole provider of (free) transportation? Am I not speaking up because I don't want to jeopardize my relationship with my nearest and dearest friends? Well, I have 2 snap out of it! Having friends shouldn't cost a fortune, nor should it involve dealing with moochers, which is exactly what I ve been doing. These supposed "friends" of mine might only be hanging around because I pamper them. And even if they aren't doing it on purpose, the fact that I sit idly by without doing anything about it will not help matters much.

I will be cautious from now on... in love and relationships... Why? Because giving him the moon and the stars, puts me in a situation where he may want to keep me around if only to be spoiled. I hate to b taken for granted... I dunno....I m not meant to b in any relationships i guess.

I make calls, i keep sending smses, i keep in touch via mails, i remember d birthdays n aniversarys, i celebrate successes n console failures...its just me me and me...never HIM.

I ll keep DANCING ALONE...